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16 May 2010 @ 03:44 pm
Quit Putting Me in the Middle...  

So those who have seen me before know my mom and my middle sister are on bad terms. After sib left without any warning to go live with her online BF half the continent away, mom took it as being blindsided. Didn't help nthat sib said a lot of nasty things online.

Anyways, that is a whole other story. I am the last one left talking to her, she is still blood after all. I have come to realize I do not LIKE her, but she is still my sister. Blood is blood. Enter a whole new drama.

Mom realizes she is still on my sib's bank account, which sib never bothered to close. She tells sib she intends to close it, since if anything goes wrong then shes just as much at fault which would not be fair. I agree personally. Or... let me rephrase that.

She tells me to tell her since shes still not speaking to her. JOY. So I do. She brushes the warning off. I tell her again a few days ago. Once more she brushes it off. So, Mom goes and closes it. Id have done the same I suppose.

Cue the following convo:

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GH: Tried to call ya back but uhm, no response. That was your phone right? Anyways, the money order with what was left in your account has already been mailed. I did warn ya SEVERAL times. > >;
T: You did not! I didn't get a damned thing from yout! WHAT THE FUCK!?
GH: I told ya she went and they said she had the legal right to. ><;
GH: I told you two weeks ago and again two days ago.
GH: So you had a LOT of warning, youchose not to believe me/her or ognore them, I dunno.
T: This was a serious WTF thing for her to do. I am doing the best I can. I already said I would close the account. I want my money, and I want it now. What is the number for the money order, and how was it mailed?
GH: I dunno that, I do know it should arrive around Tuesday or wednesday since it HAS been mailed. Two weeks was more than enough notice sib, you know this. And you also know it wasnt fair for her to keep her name on the account either. The bank even said the same, and you know how they likely would hate closing an account! It was something long planned, not an out of the blue WTF moment. You had warning. *sighs* On a random note, they say your savings account still had 10 in it if you T: Well, let me tell you something sibling. If that money isn't in my hands by tuesday, there will be repercussions. I want what is rightfully mine, earned by me. Not only that, mom DID NOT close the account, nor can she close the account. It's damn well going to be closed now, along with any all ties I have to her, but I'm done. I mean that sibling. I just want what I have earned.

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Am I seeing this wrong? It seems like she is throwing a fit yet again, I dunno.

...Ever want to just give up on people?

I hate being in the middle.

I hate seeing mom and sib fight. Even if its not visible.

I hate the growing rifts.

I guess, most of all, I hate seeing the family divided like this over MONEY. *Kicks money hard* Of all the stupid... it makes no sense to me. It really doesn't. *sighs*
I love it, I need it, I want some more of it!!!!: Belle - bitch plzjaydesummers on May 16th, 2010 11:24 pm (UTC)
Is your sister a tad touched in the head or something? o_O That's ridiculous!

Also, icon keywords. :|
Leona: tireddragoon_sten on May 17th, 2010 06:34 am (UTC)
Urk! Ill edit that now, likely I was in a mood with the keywords thing. And yes, sometimes I think so. Im left unsure what to do with the while matter you know?
(Anonymous) on May 17th, 2010 05:18 am (UTC)
The bank branch is not in penn. She is still full of drama. Her account kept getting low. If I was so evil, why didnt she remove me when she was planning to leave? I feel sorry for everyone who is getting played.But I cant do no more. I sent all her stuff(birth certs, shot records weeks ago, so let it all be done. what kind of person lets someone to threaten them with killing . There are sick people, but it aint me. She has made her choices,so there they lay. all that are immature remember there are at least 2 sides. have a nice day and god bless.
(Anonymous) on May 17th, 2010 05:21 am (UTC)

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You know.. when I was in portland.. there was a certain rule against this sort of thing, this sort of behavior and theft and fraud. And the rule was that if you did shit like this, you'd end up at the bottom of the Columbian River. Now I never saw anyone break it, but I didn't stay long and that crowd had been doing their thing well before I came along, so I'm pretty sure there were some folks who got just that sort of grave.

I approximate your mother's life at about a buck fifty: The price of three .45 ACP bullets. Two in the chest and one in the head if I ever meet this woman.

Karuch wasn't even this bad. Your mother will surely burn in hell for this, and the rest of your family isn't likely too far off. There is no room on this earth for that sort of wickedness, cowardice and lack of honor. I'll be sure to piss on her grave when she's dead.
(Anonymous) on May 17th, 2010 05:35 am (UTC)

This guy's so hardcore he's making death threats ON THE INTRANETS

People like this seriously piss me off
Leona: Leona Plotting Chaosdragoon_sten on May 17th, 2010 06:39 am (UTC)
Seriously now, everyone's entitled to their own opinion surely. I just wish my mom up there knew when it came to the internet folks have a way of posting... interesting things. She does take it all at face value. Anyways.

I'd rather hope my family wouldn't end up there, but Im told its where all the cool folks are anyways considering these days you're told you're going to Hell if you accidentally fart in church or for that matter ain't sitting in the congregation every Sunday. But thats neither here nor there.

But a lack of honor... hmph. This I must disagree with. hes not the one who started this whole fight, but was rather blind-sided by it all. Sib was an adult living here, yet never spoke a word of how she felt while here. Doesn't that sound even the slightest bit off? If she really was feeling that down and abused, she didn't tell anyone here. Not her friends, not her co-workers, not her own sisters.
(Anonymous) on May 17th, 2010 05:24 am (UTC)
the above is message about me to michelle oler who lives and works at walmart in Philadelphia
bassetmom3bassetmom3 on May 17th, 2010 03:35 pm (UTC)
I looked for the birth cert, but i am almost sure I sent it either by letter or in the box of shame.lol. She will have to file for a new one. Dad said he would look again when he gets home. I am not surprized m would like to see me dead. maybe her and kristen will find an even ground then. But M will not be notified by the passing of anyone. I have made this clear. She chose this path,and at least she will have her friends there. this is all. I will delete all this tonight after I make copies of all everyone said for friends and family, so there can be no misunderstandings.
Treshtalakestreal on May 18th, 2010 04:12 am (UTC)
Just let the family know I will pay for all of my records, my birth certificate, all the important things, to be sent via registered mail. That's what I want, I can't even open a new account or get a new id until I have those things. Birth certificate esp. It's in the briefcase, I know that much. Along with my shot records. Please and thank you.

And I did speak up and tell Tyr that I don't wish ill on mom. I really don't. I don't want anyone dead, or in hell or injured or whatever. NOthing like that. I just don't want anything more to do with someone as cruel, petty and vindictive as mom turned out to be.

It's just rehashing old shit, sibling. Speak or don't, it's not my choice. Mom made her choices in her decisions, I made mine. I don't continue the drama, she does. *shrugs* I vividly recall everytime mom was mean and you said to just hush because mom was in "one of her moods" again. I vividly recall getting yelled at and sent to my room because I didn't hop fast enough, didn't clean well enough. It's all over and done with now, and maybe one day mom will decide to see me as an adult, and we can be civil.
bassetmom3bassetmom3 on May 18th, 2010 02:45 pm (UTC)
So true today except I'm removing myself from the situation some people r just too iggnorant to deal with. and I know Karma is a bitch.
(Anonymous) on May 21st, 2010 03:48 pm (UTC)
My mother, to teach me a lesson, withdrew every cent out of my account .What this has taught me is this: my mom is spiteful. She is mean. SHe is petty and small-hearted. My refusal to apologize has turned her into this woman I don't know anymore.I have come to realize I do not LIKE her, . I approximatemy mother's life at about a buck fifty: The price of three .45 ACP bullets. Two in the chest and one in the head if I ever meet this woman again I wish ill on mom My mother is a bitch.I'm not sorry for what I've said about my family, folks. I really am not. am a good person...and I will always love my family, make these journals because this is the one place that my family still stalks, still reads everything I say. I know they read this, and because of that, I post. HE says Glad I moved in with new love and thumb my nose at a couple members of my family, And I do wish her dead, or in hell or injured or whatever. THIS IS WHAT I HEARD